Tuesday, March 14, 2023

I Lost Weight, and Now WW has Lost It's Way

 


Not an hour goes by that we don't hear about a closing. Folks, things are tough out there. The pandemic fallout and bad business decisions during the tech boom have come home to roost.

WeightWatchers has tried to repurpose a seasoned brand, and in so doing, destroyed everything that worked. No, it is not your mother's weight loss program. Mine would never recognize the #studios. The meetings went from weight-loss pointers, directed primarily at suburban housewives, to a new-age, Self. help program, which alienated many. They ran to Oprah to save it, and in so doing destroyed it. WW Magazines, meetings to share pointers and Recipes and Trinket incentives have faded way, replaced by 45 minutes of exploring feelings.

Even with the changes, I stayed. Because it worked. No tricks, not shortcuts. Sensible and sustainable.

Now, hundreds of meeting locations are shuttering, and a few will reappear in community centers. {ironically my first attempt at WW was at a long gone at-work program}. The once-sought lifetime program is obviously not valued. (I expect to be charged come 2024) Instead, they have partnered with a pharmaceutical company, which promotes WW Magazines injections.

Lost in this are the, mostly women coaches/leaders, who will lose their jobs and the peer groups who will miss the comradery of weekly visits to a friendly center.

I also learned my local RETROFITNESS CLUBS, LLC may be closing with no notice. The Writing was on the wall, broken machines and dirty bathrooms. But, telling members the day before? Why? Maybe increased rent, and overhead. Maybe they never recovered from the pandemic closing. When they reopened, the fee increased, classes all but disappeared, and repairs were neglected. Yet, they expected to draw new members?

For me, these two franchises have kept me sane during difficult times. I took the support and advice from #ww to avoid stress-eating and the treadmill, and other gym equipment to release my stress.

And guess what? I was very open about communicating my appreciation and allegiance to both. I attended my first Weight Watchers meeting in 1993 and became lifetime in 1994. I have been below goal almost eight years, attending meetings frequently and referring friends and family. It works.

I also referred plenty of people to #retro because of the family atmosphere. I thanked the part-time workers for being friendly and responsive. Kids, now out of work, who will land on their feet and find another position. But our members, who watch out for each other, and the frail, disabled and newbies, who come to the gym to enhance their lives... that's another question. #jobs #business #work #community #pharmaceutical #people #brand #writing #selfhelp

In both cases, the huge salaried CEO's have lost touch with the needs of the consumers. Too bad. #tech #sustainable #share #help #leaders #ceo

Friday, September 30, 2022

 

Quote of the day...

"We didn't lose, we chose not to win."

This can be transferred into so many areas. Think about it. Do you make a conscious decision not to continue, but are at peace with the results?

I've been in situations where I knew I couldn't win but I didn't want to be defeated. I let time expire.... Moving ahead, perhaps I will win by taking more control of the situation. Like job seeking.

I know people want to help, but think before you give advise. Trust me, I've thought about everything you will suggest. I am on Indeed.com, LinkedIn, Monster, ,Idealist.org, Ladders and SimplyHired. I sent letters to companies posting, offering my resume, unsolicited. I network. I re-apply for jobs where they seem to have ghosted. And I have been on more interviews in this search than in my previous 20 years combined. Many have been a waste of time. Others were a Match - the one that got away.

I preemptively answer the questions many are asking about my life. Why am I looking? Why did I apply for this Position²? What are my Core Strengths? Even what are my weaknesses?

In every interview I give my all. I do the homework, dress the part- professionally, and practice my answers to the anticipated questions.

Interviewing is hard work. It is not fun. Having been on both sides of the desk, I know the interviewer is having even less fun than I am.

All is fair in love and war, but there are ways to ask questions without being The Antagonist.

I answer everything which is Appropriate, but I avoid subjects which will turn the tables on me.

Salary, for one. If the employer can't provide Salary Guides or what the range is, then it is not firm. It is a ploy to see what the candidate seeks.

And if an hour in a room with me, and five professional references, writing clips and a previous screening interview has not helped you to see who I am, a presentation/task will only provide you with free services.

If you candidly tell me you seek to use the presentation, then pay me for my time. I know I am already successful because I have a long history as a #servantleader with many Achievements on my Resumé. I also know that I have given my all in everything I do.

Now, it is time to achieve my current goal, and in so doing, help YOU, the EMPLOYERS, or RECRUITERS achieve yours. #work #jobs #linkedin #people #love #help #network #like #writing #interview #resume #recruiters #references #interviewing #jobseeking #wrestling #nonprofitleadership

Wednesday, May 25, 2022

I Am Numb


I am numb Today.

Unable to THINK, Feel, or Respond normally. I share anger with Senator Murphy of CT. I feel OUTRAGE that we are going through this again!


I shake my head in Disbelief with millions of people who ask "how" and "why". I awoke to a sense of sadness, which pales in comparison to those felt by the victims and their families.

I feel grateful to the teachers, social workers, policeman, clergy and others who will help pick up the pieces. Most significantly, I know these are not new emotions.

I've had them 27 times since January 1st. Twenty-seven school shootings this year alone! And 198 mass shootings in total.

Victims like you and me. People going to school, work, pray, eat or drink, listen to music, or shop. Things we take for-granted until it happens in our community. We can light candles, attend vigils, and send prayers, but folks, these actions aren't working.

This is not political, it a matter of life and death. What ever our current response has been, it's wrong. We need to examine how radical Information, weapons of mass destruction and military-grade protection are available to terrorists and not law enforcement officers.

Let's study how we screen for COVID-19 and not mental illness. How we can't bring a bottle of water on a plane, but we can walk into a mall or grocery store,,armed and prepared to cause mass casualties.

Yes, I'm numb. Not because I don't care... but because I do.

Thursday, May 12, 2022

Goodnight Moon- for Modern Moms

In the great “October Mist” room
There was a cell phone
And an Eco-friendly balloon
And computer screen
with a login for Zoom.

And there were a trio of “Build A Bears” sitting on beanbag chairs
And two rescue kittens
And a pair of waterproof mittens
A Barbie Playhouse
And a computer mouse
A sweater, two coats and bowl full of oats
And an overworked mother who was reviewing work-notes.

Goodnight room,
Goodnight groom
Goodnight work-from home-buddies, chatting on Zoom.
Goodnight Twitter
and Facebook too, time to leave the social media zoo.

First, put away the bears,
and dust the chairs
Feed the kittens
And wash the mittens.

Good evening Ebay
and Apple Pay
Let’s see what’s on sale today
Replace the worn socks, and find some building blocks.
Help organize the house
And locate a battery for the dying mouse

Find a brush and a comb
Look, now there’s garden Gnome.

When she’s done, she’ll grab the card
and mumble, that’s not too hard!

At the end of her spree she she’ll select Prime,
and her stuff will arrive in no time.
Now the order will be sped
and the overworked lady can go to bed.
Before she turns in for the day,
there’s one more thing she has to say.

Goodnight YouTube
and TikToc too.
Goodnight SnapChat
and Goodnight to you!

 

 

 

Thursday, April 21, 2022

Ban on Plastic Bans Poses Dilemma for Pet Parents

As of today, nine states in the US have banned the use of plastic shopping bags. In these places, California, Connecticut, Delaware,Hawaii, Maine, New York, New Jersey, Oregon, and Vermont you must bring your own reusable bags. While I agree whole-hardheartedly with the
policy, it has posed an unrelated problem in our household. 

What do we do with the dirty kitty litter? I am very aware of recycling and try to extend the life of all items. I repurposed paper bags to drain fried foods, and plastic to dispose of the corn-based litter we use for our two cats. When the ban became effective in New York, in March 2020, I stocked up on the packages of pet waste bags in the Dollar Tree. There were 50 in a box; with two cats I use a lot! Soon I discovered that there were more per box if I purchased the almost identical product in the baby section. The Diaper bags had 75 per carton and they smelled like baby powder! I was thrilled. Until, I couldn't find either type of bags. 

Apparently, they are also scarce. After the epic failure of using sandwich bags, and the poor quality and higher cost per bag for doggies poop bags, I was determined to find an option.I turned to the internet and saw that they are hard to come by.

Then, I found my beloved Sassy Baby Disposable Diaper Sacks on Amazon. They come in various unit counts and I opted for the 200 count for just $6.57. Best of all, they arrived the very next day. 

 

Here's the details:










Color Lavender
Scent Lavender
Item Dimensions (LxWxH) 11 x 6 x 3.5 inches
Brand Sassy
Item Form Bag
Unit Count 200 Count










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Friday, April 15, 2022

A Life is Not Important Except the Impact it Has on Other Lives

Thinking about my dad today on the 75th anniversary of Jackie Robinson's ground breaking introduction to the MLB. He, along with Pee Wee Reese (real name Harold) were my dad's favorite Dodgers. 
 
Jackie's impact on our society occurred EIGHT years before Martin Luther King emerged as the leader of nonviolent Civil Rights Movement efforts. He refused to sit in the back of a bus in 1944, 11 years before the courageous acts of Rosa Parks. A trailblazer in athletics, and business. 
 
Robinson also was the first black television analyst in MLB and the first black vice president of a major American corporation, Chock Full O'Nuts. In the 1960s, he helped establish the Freedom National Bank, (later Carver Federal Savings) an African-American-owned financial institution based in Harlem, New York. After his death in 1972, Robinson was posthumously awarded the Congressional Gold Medal and Presidential Medal of Freedom in recognition of his achievements on and off the field.
 
Dad's love of baseball was passed down to me, and we shared love of the Mets, and Tom Seaver, Mookie Wilson and Mike Piazza. All morning, I wanted to pick up my cell and call dad to tell him about the moving ceremonies to unveil the statue. I guess he had a bird's eye view. Love you dad and despite his late in life Marlin fandom, I know today he is saying "Let's Go Mets!!!!!!!"

 

Thursday, April 14, 2022

A Message from Beth


 For millions of people across the globe, today begins a weekend of reflection, reBirth and rejoicing. In what is probably the first opportunity to celebrate with loved ones since the start of the pandemic, it is also a weekend for Reunions and a time of greater hope and Promise.

Resurrection for some, liberation for others. During these dark and difficult days our world is witnessing, these celebrations take on a new meaning. These two holidays symbolize new opportunities, acknowledgement of repression and the fighting spirit to conquer all.

May all of my LinkedIn friends lean on loved ones to find peace, love and optimism. Here's to a happy Easter2022 and Chagsameach or joyous Passover2022.

Happy Holidays 💓,

Beth


Wednesday, April 13, 2022

Terrorism Takes On Many Forms


I've sat here for almost an hour, trying to decide where to begin. What to say. This is unusual for me, but sometimes outside factors effect your outlook on life.

There was a terrorist attack on NYC yesterday. Yes, terrorist. People were terrorized by a lunatic. A monster who planned a mass attack on innocent people. Men traveling to work, a pregnant woman sitting nearby, older people, and children going to school.

The location was not midtown Manhattan. It was in Sunset Park, Brooklyn, a diverse community of approximately 78,000 residents with a median age of 35.

Ten people where shot, an 13 additional were hurt trying to escape. Yet, millions of others were victimized and the trauma will last weeks, months or maybe years. Commuters who are now scared to travel into NYC for work or pleasure.

Sadly, it's happened before. In NY, Boston, LA and countless other cities. Previously, people had no choice, but to continue to commute. But now it is different. Most professions can lend themselves to hybrid or remote jobs and retain their workforce. Unfortunately, too many chose not to.

When I heard the news, I reached out to a friend, who was recently FORCED to return to the office after two years of remote working. Rising early, returning late, undergoing constant COVID-19 Test Kits. He's tired, ornery, overworked and underappreciated. His quality of life has changed in the past month since he returned to the office.

Since he was at work, he asked me for details. Who was it, did they catch him, do they know why? I had no answers. As the day wore on, I sensed more fear, anger and frustration in his texts. Again, no answers, except me responding to text me when arrived home safely.

I'm sure his commute this morning was terrifying. And it didn't have to be. He should have been able to work from home, while the perpetrator remained on the loose; and until he felt safe going back on the train.

I've been fortunate in my career to never have to endure a commute like that. It was a choice I made, so I could remain available for family and one I still consider today.

To all who returned to subways, buses, cabs and corporate offices_ be safe my friends.

 

Thursday, April 7, 2022

Karma Chameleon

 

I pride myself in being a GLASS half-full person. Yet, I am pragmatic rather than emotional, both in my career and personal life. Is this an Oxymoron ?

Absolutely not. Negativity is toxic. It may fester below the surface, but when it bubbles over, it pollutes the environment.

Over the years, my approach has been challenged. I've been laid off, and accepted new positions, knowing they were dead-end. Yet, I vowed never to burn bridges, seek retribution, or show anger, resentment or bitterness. In both instances, these short-term jobs enabled me to move on with career-changing positions.

When things got particularly tough in my life, I reset my priorities; and purchased a ring inscribed with the phase "this too shall pass." It never leaves my hand.

Since I don't job-hop, my resume shows stability, and tenure. Obviously, that means there were times when optimism and sensibility were tested, but I relied on the knowledge that I was like a chameleon: I change my exterior to adapt to my surrounds, have "eyes in the back of my head" and hide my sharp tongue.

The Chameleon personality type can walk into a room, quickly pick up on the expectations of those around them and become the life of the party or a quiet, thoughtful participant — or whatever they need to be. Meanwhile, their private self remains Hidden.

So, when I saw today's Horoscope in the NyPost, I had to giggle. "The best way to deal with your negative mindset is to throw yourself into your work. The less time you spend worrying what might go wrong the more likely it is things will start going right. And remember, your outlook matters more than events."

That's because, I already know that the glass is half-full and
"this too shall pass."